- ASL: Age Stats Location OR Age Sex Location
- 420 (or 4:20): refers to cannabis (see 420 (drug culture))
- B&D (also B/D): Bondage and Discipline
- BB: Bodybuilder or Barebacking
- BBC: Big Black Cock
- BBC: Big Black Cunt
- BBW: Big Beautiful Woman (Overweight)
- BMW: (Big Mexican Woman) overweight Mexican woman
- BDSM: Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism
- BF: Black Female, or Boyfriend
- BOTS: Bit on the Side
- BHM: Big Handsome Man (uncommon, see BBW)
- Bi: Bisexual
- BiF: Bisexual Female
- BiM: Bisexual Male
- CD: Cross Dresser
- CFNM: Clothed female, naked male
- D/D: drug and disease
- DDF: Drug and Disease Free
- DL: Down low: engages in secretive same-sex sex, often when in a heterosexual relationship
- Dom: Male Dominant partner/participant in BDSM
- Domme: Female Dominant partner/participant in BDSM
- D/s: Dominance and Submission - lowercased "s" signifies power exchange
- DTE: Down-to-earth
- DWF: Divorced White Female
- DWM: Divorced White Male
- FTM: Female-to-Male Transgender
- FWB: Friend With Benefits (friendship plus sex and no emotions)
- GAM: Gay Asian Male
- GBM: Gay Black Male
- GF: Gay Female (Lesbian), or Girlfriend
- GG: Genetic Girl/Real Girl/All-Girl as opposed to a TV/TS/TG "girl"
- GSOH: Good Sense Of Humour
- GHM: Gay Hispanic Male
- GWC: Gay White Couple
- GWF: Gay White Female
- GWM: Gay White Male
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- Het: Heterosexual
- HWP: Height Weight Proportional: indicates an 'ideal' body weight
- IRL: In Real Life: face to face meeting
- ISO: In Search Of
- LF: Looking For
- LTR: Long Term Relationship (opposite of NSA)
- M4M: Man seeking man
- M4MW: Man seeking man and woman
- M4T: Male seeking transsexual or transvestite (cross dresser)
- M4W: Man seeking woman
- MBC: Married Black Couple
- MBiC: Married Bisexual Couple
- MHC: Married Hispanic Couple
- MOTOS: Member of the Opposite Sex
- MOTSS: Member of the Same Sex
- MTF: Male-to-Female Transgender
- MW4M: Man and woman seeking man
- MW4MW: Man and woman seeking man and woman
- MW4W: Man and woman seeking woman
- MWC: Married White Couple
- ND: Non-Drinker
- NS: Non-Smoker or Non-Smoking
- NSA: No Strings Attached (opposite of LTR)
- OFAC: Own Flat And Car
- OHAC: Own House And Car
- PNP: Party and Play (drugs, usually crystal meth, and sex)
- Pre-Op: Pre-Operational Transsexual with genitalia unaltered, typically male-to-female
- RTS: Real-Time Sex
- S&M (also S/M): Sadomasochism, aka Sadism & Masochism
- SAE: Self Addressed Envelope
- SASE: Self Addressed Stamped Envelope
- SBF: Single Black Female
- SBM: Single Black Male
- SBiF: Single Bisexual Female
- SBiM: Single Bisexual Male
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- ski: an outdoor snow or water sport, or code for cocaine use
- snow: cocaine
- STD: Sexually Transmitted Disease
- Str8: Straight (not bisexual or gay)
- sub (also subby or subbie): Submissive partner/participant in BDSM (always lowercase)
- SWF: Single White Female
- SWM: Single White Male
- SWS: Sex Without Strings(one night stand)
- TG: Transgender person
- Tina: Methamphetamine
- TLC: Tender Loving Care
- TS (also Transsexual or Tranny): Transsexual person, typically male-to-female
- TV: Transvestite person
- TYVM: Thank You Very Much
- VGL: Very Good Looking
- VAS: Vasectomy
- W/E: Well Endowed: larger than average male organ
- W/S: Watersports
- W4M: Woman seeking man
- W4MW: Woman seeking man and woman
- W4W: Woman seeking woman
- WLTM: Would Like To Meet
- YO: Years Old
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