Personal advertisement 

A personal or personal ad is an item or notice traditionally in the newspaper, similar to a classified ad but personal in nature. With its rise in popularity, the World Wide Web has also become a common medium for personals, commonly referred to as online dating. Personals are generally meant to generate romance, friendship, or casual (sometimes sexual) encounters, and usually include a basic description of the person posting it, and their interests.

Due to newspaper prices being based on characters or lines of text, a jargon of abbreviations, acronyms and code words arose in personals, and have carried over to the internet.

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Examples of single-letter abbreviations used in three-letter acronyms (TLA)

List of common abbreviations, acronyms, and code words

  • ASL: Age Stats Location OR Age Sex Location
  • 420 (or 4:20): refers to cannabis (see 420 (drug culture))
  • B&D (also B/D): Bondage and Discipline
  • BB: Bodybuilder or Barebacking
  • BBC: Big Black Cock
  • BBC: Big Black Cunt
  • BBW: Big Beautiful Woman (Overweight)
  • BMW: (Big Mexican Woman) overweight Mexican woman
  • BDSM: Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism
  • BF: Black Female, or Boyfriend
  • BOTS: Bit on the Side
  • BHM: Big Handsome Man (uncommon, see BBW)
  • Bi: Bisexual
  • BiF: Bisexual Female
  • BiM: Bisexual Male
  • CD: Cross Dresser
  • CFNM: Clothed female, naked male
  • D/D: drug and disease
  • DDF: Drug and Disease Free
  • DL: Down low: engages in secretive same-sex sex, often when in a heterosexual relationship
  • Dom: Male Dominant partner/participant in BDSM
  • Domme: Female Dominant partner/participant in BDSM
  • D/s: Dominance and Submission - lowercased "s" signifies power exchange
  • DTE: Down-to-earth
  • DWF: Divorced White Female
  • DWM: Divorced White Male
  • FTM: Female-to-Male Transgender
  • FWB: Friend With Benefits (friendship plus sex and no emotions)
  • GAM: Gay Asian Male
  • GBM: Gay Black Male
  • GF: Gay Female (Lesbian), or Girlfriend
  • GG: Genetic Girl/Real Girl/All-Girl as opposed to a TV/TS/TG "girl"
  • GSOH: Good Sense Of Humour
  • GHM: Gay Hispanic Male
  • GWC: Gay White Couple
  • GWF: Gay White Female
  • GWM: Gay White Male
  • Het: Heterosexual
  • HWP: Height Weight Proportional: indicates an 'ideal' body weight
  • IRL: In Real Life: face to face meeting
  • ISO: In Search Of
  • LF: Looking For
  • LTR: Long Term Relationship (opposite of NSA)
  • M4M: Man seeking man
  • M4MW: Man seeking man and woman
  • M4T: Male seeking transsexual or transvestite (cross dresser)
  • M4W: Man seeking woman
  • MBC: Married Black Couple
  • MBiC: Married Bisexual Couple
  • MHC: Married Hispanic Couple
  • MOTOS: Member of the Opposite Sex
  • MOTSS: Member of the Same Sex
  • MTF: Male-to-Female Transgender
  • MW4M: Man and woman seeking man
  • MW4MW: Man and woman seeking man and woman
  • MW4W: Man and woman seeking woman
  • MWC: Married White Couple
  • ND: Non-Drinker
  • NS: Non-Smoker or Non-Smoking
  • NSA: No Strings Attached (opposite of LTR)
  • OFAC: Own Flat And Car
  • OHAC: Own House And Car
  • PNP: Party and Play (drugs, usually crystal meth, and sex)
  • Pre-Op: Pre-Operational Transsexual with genitalia unaltered, typically male-to-female
  • RTS: Real-Time Sex
  • S&M (also S/M): Sadomasochism, aka Sadism & Masochism
  • SAE: Self Addressed Envelope
  • SASE: Self Addressed Stamped Envelope
  • SBF: Single Black Female
  • SBM: Single Black Male
  • SBiF: Single Bisexual Female
  • SBiM: Single Bisexual Male
  • ski: an outdoor snow or water sport, or code for cocaine use
  • snow: cocaine
  • STD: Sexually Transmitted Disease
  • Str8: Straight (not bisexual or gay)
  • sub (also subby or subbie): Submissive partner/participant in BDSM (always lowercase)
  • SWF: Single White Female
  • SWM: Single White Male
  • SWS: Sex Without Strings(one night stand)
  • TG: Transgender person
  • Tina: Methamphetamine
  • TLC: Tender Loving Care
  • TS (also Transsexual or Tranny): Transsexual person, typically male-to-female
  • TV: Transvestite person
  • TYVM: Thank You Very Much
  • VGL: Very Good Looking
  • VAS: Vasectomy
  • W/E: Well Endowed: larger than average male organ
  • W/S: Watersports
  • W4M: Woman seeking man
  • W4MW: Woman seeking man and woman
  • W4W: Woman seeking woman
  • WLTM: Would Like To Meet
  • YO: Years Old

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